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What is PrayerLife?

Many of us are quietly defeated in our private prayer lives. We’ve tried praying, but it just doesn’t seem to work. So we feel a combination of frustration and guilt. In this study, you will learn step-by-step how to begin a private life of prayer in fellowship with our heavenly Father. This study is not for victorious Christians, but Christians who often find themselves defeated in the trenches. It deals with such practical questions as…

  • “How do you stay focused when you are distracted with so much to do?”
  • “How do you pray longer than five minutes?”
  • “How do you pray when your own life is messed up?”
  • “How do you ask when you’ve tried it before and it doesn’t work?”

PrayerLife is an 11-week video study for small groups or Sunday School that teaches people to develop a life of private prayer. The PrayerLife products include a Leader's Manual, Participant's Manual, Video [VHS] 4-tape set, Video [DVD] 4-disk set, and an Audio [CD] 4-disk set. For most group studies you will need one Leader's Manual, one Participant's manuals for each person attending the study and one of the video sets (either DVD or VHS). The CD set would not be recommended for group study but would be perfect for individual study or to listen to in your car. To learn more about the content of this study, click here.

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PrayerLife Manuals
PrayerLife Manuals

The PrayerLife manuals are designed to be used together with the PrayerLife Seminar Video.

 


PrayerLife Leader's Manual

The PrayerLife Leader’s manual includes Paul Miller's teaching notes as well as providing additional insights and questions to supplement and enhance your group study. [96 pages]

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PrayerLife Participant's Manual follows the PrayerLife Video closely, leaving room for the participant to take notes and write down their own reflections as they go through the study. [96 pages]

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PrayerLife Video The PrayerLife Video
The PrayerLife Video was filmed live before a church group as Paul Miller taught through all eleven lessons.

Available in DVD, VHS or audio CD. 4 Disk or Tape Set. (approximately 4 3/4 hours)

DVD Set: Add to Cart $99.99

VHS Set:
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Also available is an audio version of the study on CD. This version is perfect for personal study or to listen to in your car. The CD version is not recommended for group study.

$39.99 (Audio CD)
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Contents of Four VHS Tape/DVD Disk Sets:

—Disk One
1. Why Is Prayer So Hard? (30 min)
2. Becoming A Child Of Your Father
(27 min.)

[Note: On the CD version, Disk One contains Lessons 1-3 and Disk Two contains 4-5, which differs from the VHS and DVD.]

—Disk Two
3. Begin Early With Your Father (10 min.)
4. Helplessness: The Key To Effective Praying (27 min.)
5. Ask Your Father Anything (49 min.)

—Disk Three
6. Entering Your Father’s Story Through Prayer (32 min.)
7. Learning To Listen To Your Father (25 min.)

—Disk Four
8. Put The Word To Work (27 min.)
9. Prayer Work (17 min.)
10. Thanking God (10 min.)
11. Repentance And Intercessory Prayer (13 min.)

Note: All lesson times shown above are approximate.



Special Leader's Packages

Included in this package deal is 1 Leader’s Manual, 20 Participant’s Manuals, plus your choice of either the VHS or DVD set.



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PrayerLife Video Study Overview

The PrayerLife study begins with two assumptions. The first is that most Christians, maybe 95%, either have almost no prayer life or a very bad one. The second assumption is that most Christians don’t realize that their problems with prayer are not unique. They think something is really wrong with them, and they are afraid to say it.

To get participants to understand these two assumptions, the study begins by having everyone pray quietly for five minutes. It is awkward to sit there and pray silently for five minutes. After the prayer time the first question is, “What was hard about that five minutes?” Slowly the group begins to get honest. “My mind wandered” is one of the first things people say. Next they are asked what it wandered to. “is the oven on?…how do I solve this problem at work?...what should I make for dinner?...is my mom really mad at me?" are a few of the responses.” By this time everyone is laughing, and they begin to feel a sense of relief that everybody is in the same boat with them…and sinking!

Next we take almost half an hour to talk about that five minute prayer time. As time goes on, the participants get more and more honest about their difficulties in prayer. Here are some actual responses from our PrayerLife seminars:

  • I prayed for 3 minutes and day dreamed for 2 minutes
  • Hard to be still
  • Feels futile…it may not happen
  • Feels like a chore
  • I didn’t worship enough
  • How do I connect with a Spirit?
  • Can I pray for what I want? How do I know it
    is God's will?
  • Hard to concentrate, to stay focused. The
    day’s to-do list pops up as soon as I slow
    down.
  • He knows it already. Why bore God? Sounds like nagging.

Having established our need to learn to pray, we turn in the second lesson to Jesus’ emphasis on becoming like a little child. Not only does Jesus call us to be like little children, but he also models childlike faith in his ongoing surrender to his heavenly Father. This second lesson is very freeing for participants. They learn to go to their heavenly Father like a little child. We’ve created an entire legal structure in prayer that has kept us from being real with God. We’re afraid to pray for what we want because we’re so aware that our wants are often selfish. We know we should focus on God and others in prayer, but as we slow down and pray we get overwhelmed with our to-do list. We are overwhelmed by our selfishness. All of this feeds a sense of guilt and powerlessness. Prayer just doesn’t work.

But little children are not hung up by their selfishness. They just come and ask for what is on their mind. They don’t try to create a spiritual persona or try to be something they aren’t—they just tell you what is on their minds. There is nothing more freeing in prayer.

All of this ties in with the gospel. Jesus doesn’t say, “All you who have learned to concentrate in prayer and put me first, you come to me.” No, he says, “All you who are weary and heavy laden come to me.” In other words, the only criteria for coming to Jesus is a wandering mind. Don’t try to stop your wandering mind when you come to Jesus. Bring your wandering mind. Pray about what it is wandering to. Stop trying to be spiritual—just be yourself.

When you become like a little child, you are living out the gospel in your prayer life. Instead of trying to create a spiritual “you”, just be yourself, warts and all. It doesn’t mean that everything you want is correct, but you have to begin with where you are. If you try to begin anywhere else, you are creating a legal, false way of approaching God. When a real sinner goes to a real God, you have prayer.

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"This seminar was a powerful illustration of how prayer ought to be interlaced throughout my life. After years of spiritual stagnation, I feel that the reorientation of my mind to prayer will renew and revive my prayer life and cause me to see the Father's work in my life more prominently. Paul Miller is a gifted master teacher, illustrator and communicator."
David Noble, Small Group Leader and Training Analyst for the US Navy, New Hope Presbyterian Church, San Diego, CA 
 
"I learned how to pray to God as if I am in His lap, and no matter what I say He is there to listen unconditionally. I found the freedom to pray without any expectations on myself or judgments from God. I learned practical ways to put prayer into practice."
Emily Love,
Elder's wife and homemaker
 

'It got me back to a more aggressive prayer life. I am recommitted to strategic prayer goals for life, work and family. Very practical, simple, yet profound, much needed."
Tom Corey,
Hope PCA, New York

 

"I loved the down-to-earth honesty about what keeps us from praying. I received intensely practical advice and application. The prayer times were great!"
Perry Kleinsasser, Computer Analyst and Small Group Leader,
New Hope Presbyterian Church, San Diego, CA

 
"[The study] helped to clarify that the ‘answer’ is not a formula or a great work, but an acceptance and experience of being a child before the living God.”
Lorraine Tauriello,
New Hope Presbyterian Church, Frederick, MD
 
 
"It was very freeing. I feel excited about prayer--it's no longer a restricted activity, but a place where I can be honest before God."
Cheri Villafuerte,
R.N., and Campus ministry and worship team
 
"I got a closer look into my heart of selfishness and a better understanding of how God sees me as a broken sinner, and still accepts me and my prayers where I am."
Brad Lawhorn, Salesman, Deacon
 
"Prayer has been something I've known about all my life. But I saw it in a whole new way today. Changing from the methodical, traditional prayer to an open, honest time of coming before Christ and laying at His feet as I am--broken, tired, and in need of Him. Thank you."
Lydia Trader, Student
 
"I feel a new freedom in prayer. It is becoming a blessing now instead of a burden."
John Tinnin, Pastor,
San Diego, CA
 

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